my vote is still skype - if anyone wants to log in there you can find my name under konstanttrubble and invite me to be your friend (sighhhhh, I need friends LOL) - toad and I have both logged in there, and I have been into toad's too (sorry toad, I still prefer skype though)
Whatever we do, we need to know which one so as not to be totally confused, or it will be worse than not having any and just using in-game!!!
Important that we agree a chat forum before war is declared, so we can use it and make sure we all understand it (I am not too bright when it comes to this stuff, so I have to get used to anything new!!!)